Monday, April 28, 2008

There are times

There are times. There are times, like when you go for an ultrasound and you see your little baby swimming around and yawning, and clenching his fist, and then waving at you, and sticking his foot up in the air and then crossing his legs. When your husband tells the radiology tech, "Can you make my wife some copies of these pictures? Because these are mine," and tucking them in his shirt pocket. When you go out to eat to celebrate and he tells the server, "Oh would you like to see some pictures of my son?" And without waiting for an answer shows her the whole string of blurry images, pointing out the profile, the yawning mouth, and the one that shows us that he's a boy. Sitting there at the table together, and thinking about your baby and how he is really real, a little tiny person in there. When you know that along with great times there will be awful times, and victories and failures, and joy and sadness, and ordinary ordinary days, there are times. There are times when all's right with the world.

7 comments:

Rob said...

I'm happy for you guys.
I remember when my own son was that age. Now he's 15, and has turned out to be adequate in most ways.
;-)
(Just a little joke there. I kill me...)

Amy said...

Right there with ya. I still remember the post-ultra sound lunch. Thanks for reminding me and for bringing my heart back up into my throat all over again. Congratulations seems like a silly word but I can't think of another one.... A big hug to both and a third for your tummy!

Erik said...

neato, bring on the nephews! i plan to mold and sculpt this particular nephew into the finest human imaginable (same as i did my other ones). thank you for the opportunity, but most of all congrats!

jay are said...

sweet...sweet...thank goodness for those times, eh? congrats

Gina said...

I too still remember that moment when you see your little person for the first time and then it seems even more real than the day you first heard the heartbeat. Congrats on your little boy.

Happy Birthday! said...

Thanks for all the congrats. Since you've all begged me and pleaded (telepathically), I'm going to post one or two of the pics. :)

SoozeSchmooze said...

I like those pics...and I like how we all begged and pleaded with you telepathically to post them.. ;) What a very special time you are having...first year of marriage and new baby studies...no point in making life too simple.. ;)